Biblical Insights on Marriage: A Steady Guide for Your Journey

December 21, 2025—Marriage is one of the most profound relationships we experience. It shapes our lives, our families, and our faith. But what does the Bible say about this sacred union? How can we apply the principles of marriage to our daily lives? Let’s explore some biblical insights on marriage that can encourage and guide you.

Understanding the Biblical View on Marriage

The Holy Bible presents marriage as a divine institution, designed by God from the very beginning. In Genesis 2:24, it says, “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.” This verse highlights the unity and commitment expected in marriage.

Marriage is not just a social contract or a romantic arrangement. It is a sacred promise before God. This means it requires faithfulness, love, and mutual respect. The Holy Bible also teaches that marriage reflects the relationship between Jesus Christ of Nazareth and the Church (Ephesians 5:25-33). This comparison shows us that marriage is meant to be sacrificial, nurturing, and full of grace.

When you think about your own relationship, ask yourself:

1. Are you building a partnership that mirrors this divine example?

2. Are you committed to growing together in love and faith?

3. Does your marriage convey Jesus Christ?
   

What is the Most Important Thing in Marriage?

One thing that stands above all in a marriage is love. But not just any love. In marriage, a husband and a wife practice the kind of love described in 1 Corinthians 13. This love is patient, kind, and does not envy or boast. It keeps no record of wrongs and always protects, trusts, hopes, and perseveres.

Love is the foundation that holds everything else together. Without it, communication breaks down, conflicts escalate, and distance grows. But with love, even the hardest challenges become opportunities for growth.

How do you cultivate this love? When there is wrongdoing, be quick to forgive and slow to anger. Continue doing things that you would normally do when you are content with one another. One time, my husband and I got into a disagreement, and we were angry. I got up and made him coffee. When he asked, “You’re still going to make me coffee? Why?” I said that ignoring it or avoiding it would be childish. This may not have been the best response, but the action is what caught him by surprise.

Otherwise, you can foster love with these practical steps:

1. Pray together daily - Invite God into your relationship.

2. Listen actively - Show genuine interest in your partner’s goals, thoughts, and feelings.

3. Forgive quickly - Don’t let resentment build up.

4. Serve one another - Small acts of kindness go a long way.

5. Encourage and affirm - Speak words that build up, not tear down.

6. Support one another – Help fulfill each other’s goals and ambitions.

7. Engage in Intimacy – Your spouse has authority over your body; render affection to your husband or wife (1 Corinthians 7:3-5).
   

Remember, love is a choice you make every day. It’s not just a feeling but an action.

The Role of Communication in a Healthy Marriage

Communication is the lifeblood of any relationship. The Holy Bible encourages us to speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15). This means being honest and gentle, clear and kind. Have you ever noticed how misunderstandings often arise from poor communication? Sometimes we assume our partner knows what we think or feel. Other times, we hold back our thoughts or feelings because we fear conflict and are operating in the flesh. In marriage, be prepared to serve. Marriage in spirit lasts; marriage in flesh fails.

To improve communication, try these tips:

• Set aside regular time to talk without distractions.

• Use “I” statements to express your feelings without blaming.

• Ask open-ended questions to understand your partner better.

• Practice active listening by repeating back what you hear.

• Agree to disagree when necessary, without attacking.

  
  
  
  

Good communication builds trust and intimacy. It helps you navigate differences and deepen your connection.

How Forgiveness Strengthens Your Relationship

No marriage is perfect. We all make mistakes, sometimes unintentionally. The Holy Bible calls us to forgive as God forgives us (Colossians 3:13). Forgiveness is not always easy, but it is essential. Holding onto grudges or past hurts creates walls between you and your spouse. Forgiveness breaks down those walls and opens the door to healing and restoration.

Here’s how you can practice forgiveness:

• Acknowledge the hurt honestly.

• Choose to forgive even if you don’t feel like it.

• Pray for your spouse and for God’s help to forgive.

• Let go of bitterness and resentment.

• Seek reconciliation and rebuild trust.
  

Forgiveness is a gift you give both to your spouse and to yourself. It frees your heart and allows love to grow. Jesus Christ emphasized forgiveness:

14 “For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 15 But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.”

Building a Marriage That Honors God

Ultimately, a marriage that honors God is one where both husband and wife seek to live according to His Word. This means putting God first, loving each other selflessly, and serving together. Here are some ways to build a strong marriage:

• Keep Christ at the center of your decisions and goals.

• Attend church regularly and engage in your faith.

• Study the Holy Bible together to understand God’s plan for your relationship.

• Pray for each other and your marriage daily.

• Serve others as a couple to reflect Christ’s love.

  
  
  
  

When you build your marriage on this foundation, you create a relationship that can withstand trials and flourish with joy.

Marriage is a journey filled with challenges and blessings. By embracing biblical principles, you can nurture a relationship that reflects God’s love and grace. Take these insights to God and watch how your partnership grows stronger and more meaningful each day.

Accepting Jesus Christ

Jesus Christ is the Son of God who came in the flesh. Being innocent, Jesus died on the cross to pay the price of your sin. Three days later, Jesus Christ was resurrected in the flesh. Walking in the resurrected body for 40 days, Jesus ascended to the right hand of God. If you have not accepted Jesus Christ, I invite you to do so now. All it takes is saying this prayer aloud:

God, I confess that Jesus came in the flesh and blood, paid the price for my sins, died on the cross, rose on the third day, ascended to the heavens, and sent the Holy Spirit to help me understand Your ways. For that, I accept Jesus Christ as my savior and Lord, and I welcome the Holy Spirit in my life. In Jesus’s name I pray, amen!